Keep Your Love Alive

(1) A kiss a day (on the lips, not a peck on the cheek)
(2) Learn to laugh, especially at oneself
(3) Accept and appreciate the differences
(4) Be willing to share each other's interests, without the obligation to share the same passion
(5) Make an "I love you" code to communicate love accross a crowded room
(6) Honor your partner, especially in public
(7) Never sleep apart (when in the same town) or in anger - preserve the love shared in the bedroom.
(8) Create a "safety zone" where all disagreements stop, whether by phrase or room of the house
(9) Schedule time to discuss particularly difficult topics: such as money, budgets, politics, or other "hot button" items.
(10) When discussing, use the phrase I feel, I believe, it seems to me at least three times more often than you do, you make, you always. Increase the ratio over time.
(11) Celebrate often, regret seldom.